Happiness. It's relative.

Durant is a man dog.
He minds his own business and never gets into scuffles with other dogs. He allows himself to be sniffed but doesn’t seek out sniffing.
He trots past conflict, often not even breaking his stride to see what’s happening.
He goes ahead on the trail quite a ways and then turns around to see where we are. Sometimes, he will make a loop so while we think he is ahead he will come up behind us and trot past. But he doesn’t make a big deal out of this. It just seems to have become his job. To know where we are.
Durant is affectionate but not needy. On these very cold mornings on our back porch, he’ll wait for me to feed the birds and then when I sit down, he’ll bury his head in my lap while I scratch his back. Then, when I decide my coffee’s getting cold, he backs up and goes down the porch stairs to the yard, usually going in his doghouse.
If we call him, he’ll come back but otherwise, he is just his man dog self.
When a visitor comes to sit in our kitchen, Durant studies him but doesn’t sniff or jump or bark. He watches the new person and then lays down on the rug next to us, alert but relaxed. He doesn’t go to sleep. He just keeps watch.
He’s a man dog. A really good one.
Hi,
Those of us who have children or young adults or even are adults ourselves who may be considered Latino or Asian might want to listen to the NPR program aired this morning Monday 12/8 on Brian Lehrer about ICE picking up people who may look different from your standard “white bread” people.
Some of the folks who were interviewed said they carried their birth certificate copies and passport copies to prove that they are born American or naturalized American citizens.
https://www.wnyc.org/shows/bl/episodes?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=394617079&gbraid=0AAAAAD9J8hHIQt6LDrMxzwSsRanoTFX8F
It’s not acting like the country I used to love. Abby
I like a dog that’s secure in who they are, and owns it without fanfare.