Happiness. It's relative.

I watched Episode 2 of Underground Railroad last night.
This was a feat because Episode 1 may well live in my head the rest of my cognitive life. There are scenes that one cannot unsee. But that is fundamentally the nature of slavery. It was a thousand times crueler and more horrible than we can even imagine.
If we really look at what happened, how hundreds of thousands of people were enslaved at the most basic level of their existence, with no hope and no escape, it’s impossible to unsee it. Which is why, I think, that many people decide it’s too hard to look.
“I don’t like violence.”
As if there could be an honest book or a film about slavery that doesn’t include violence. If one decides they can’t tolerate violence, then they can’t tolerate the truth about slavery. I believe that white people have to watch the violence – even if it’s fictional, even if it’s a re-enactment, even if it is a story told to a scribe by a former slave a hundred years old. We have to watch the lashes.
We can’t keep being stupid, willfully ignorant of the history stitched into every inch of the country. We have to see the truth, however it can be delivered to us a hundred and fifty years later. We think we can’t but we have to figure out how to handle it. We can handle the truth. We just need practice.
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Start by reading Colson Whitehead’s Pulitzer Prize-winning book, Underground Railroad, then watch the Amazon Prime series.
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I saw the TV series Roots as a teenager, over 40 years ago. It marked me, and at the time I remember thinking it should be required viewing in every school. And given how long ago it was made, I’m fairly sure it was still sugar-coated.
I recently finished “Caste” by Isabel Wilkerson. Parts of it were a very hard read–the descriptions of lynchings and other events. But yes, necessary to learn, to remember, and to be part of ensuring we grow wiser and more human.